Hey,

I’ve been having sex with this a guy for almost a year. We’re only friends with benefits but I’m in love with him but idk if he is in love with me too or I’m just confused. We both have fear of commitment. And he loves the single life. But yet confuses me and sends me mixed signals. And we once talked talked about the whole situation and he said he can’t go out on dates because of me. And that he keeps thinking about me. Lately he have been different and he loves being around me in front of others. And he keeps doing things that shows them that i am special which never happened back then.

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Hey love,
That sounds like you are truly in a situationship.
I think the main thing to get clear on is what YOU want….
Is this enough for you? If not it might be time to have a conversation about what you want and if he’s able to go deeper with you.
I always caution my girls to be careful in situations like this because what you have now could be all you end up with….
Sending you love ❤️
Rikki